How to use Telepathy to Get Someone's Attention

Thoughts are energy. Start using this superpower to cultivate and nurture your relationships.

Have you ever had someone heavily on your mind only for them to call you out of the blue?

Coincidence? Perhaps. But I think something different is going on.

Well actually, I think one of two things is going on. One possibility: We're picking up on the fact that they are thinking about us (and if they're thinking about us, they're more likely to call us at some point in the near future.) The other option? That person picked up on your thoughts somehow and they were inspired to reach out.

Telepathy is not as woo-woo as you think

Thoughts are energy. Sometimes you know what someone is thinking instinctively. Other times you feel a certain way around them. Maybe you feel icky around someone that’s thinking sexual thoughts about you. You may not know logically what they’re thinking but you know they make your skin crawl and you and you find yourself crossing your arms to protect your energy when in their presence. That could be telepathy.

I had a really interesting experience with telepathy one time. Of course this was before I started working with my psychic abilities and consciously strengthening them. It was just this weird experience that I could not rationally explain.

I've been self-employed for a long time working as a writer and I once had a small business client who I had done all of this marketing copy for. When it was time for the client to pay up he kept making excuses for why the money was late. This was in the early years of my career when I wasn't smart enough yet to demand a down payment. So I had done all this work and had nothing to show for it.

I followed up with this guy multiple times and he kept saying money was coming and giving me the runaround. Eventually he just ghosted me entirely.

Maybe a year later, I started thinking about this guy and the money I never got. I hadn't thought of him for months, but I was dealing with other money challenges and so I was royally p*ssed off all over again. How dare he take advantage of my time and not pay me. For days, he kept crossing my mind and I would get angry. Then, I logged onto my computer one day and saw an email from him. I clicked on it and he was letting me know he was submitting the payment and I should have it in a couple of days.

Maybe it was a coincidence that I had been thinking of him out of the blue like that. (If you really believe that, you can mozy on away from this site now.) My thoughts: Either I was picking up on his plans to pay me or he was picking up on my anger and feelings and then his guilt made him do the right thing.

Why you might want to make someone think of you

Let's look at option number two. Why would you want to inspire someone to think about you? There are a number of reasons.

1. If there is an old friend that you haven't seen in a while, you may want them to think of the good times you've had before you give them a call.

2. If there is someone you've had a falling out with, you may want them to think of you and possibly forgive you and reach out.

3. If there is someone who you've lost contact with, you may want them to think of you and potentially find a way to contact you.

4. If you are up for a promotion, you may want your boss to think of you and the contributions you've made.

5. If you have a difficult conversation that you'd like to start with someone, having them think of you can begin to get their minds ready for the interaction.

See? These are all good reasons to use telepathy to pave the way for better communication. You may have other reasons for reaching out telepathically. For example, here’s a method to use it to smooth a rough patch in a relationship. If you're like me and you like to try out different psychic techniques just to see if they work, you may even just want to try it to see if a loved one will pick up the message.

Not-so-good reasons to try telepathy

So those were all good reasons to try to plant thoughts of yourself in another person's mind. Again, the motivation here is to improve communication, or pave the way for better communication through traditional methods.

Now I also think there are some sleazy reasons to use telepathic techniques. If you're trying to manipulate someone or control them, I believe no good can come from that. I think it's possible to do it and I believe some advertising techniques rely on some principles of telepathy but I would stay away from all of that.

Also, if you're thinking about using telepathy to try to control someone who does not want to be with you romantically, do you really want someone who you have to manipulate to stay in your life?

Tips to make someone think of you

So how can you make someone think of you?

Tip One: Meditation, meditation, meditation. I can't stress enough how powerful meditation is. Not only does it decrease stress and bring clarity to your life, but meditating regularly will jumpstart your psychic abilities. Sometimes I like to meditate in silence, while other times I like to use sounds and music that stimulate my brainwaves.

You don't have to meditate right before sending a telepathic thought. Just the act of meditating regularly will calm your mind and make it easier for you to send telepathic thoughts when you want to send them. Meditation will also make it easier for you to receive and recognize the telepathic thoughts of others.

Tip Two: Hold the thought of the person in your mind. If you take one second to think of someone and then go on to thinking about the other thousand thoughts crowding your mind, there's a good chance nothing will happen. It's harder to pick up someone's fleeting thought. You'll have a better chance of crossing someone's mind if you spend a few minutes thinking of them. Maybe you can remember some of the good times you shared. If you can call up positive emotion about the person, even better.

Tip Three: Think positive thoughts about the person. If this is someone you are mad with or someone you have major issues with, why bother? You don't want to waste your time thinking about them let alone having them think about you. This exercise really is something you should do with someone you have a good relationship with or someone you think positively of.

Appreciation is a wonderful emotion and it can help with telepathy.

Think of all of the reasons that you appreciate this person and how they add to and enhance your life. Those are the kinds of thoughts that feel good so they are more likely to be accepted by the object of your attention, and there's a chance that will make someone think of you.

Just to go back to the idea of sending negative thoughts: When you're sending negative thoughts to someone, they can pick up on that. But it would not feel good to them. Chances are they would react by feeling negatively about you, though they may not understand why they are feeling that way. They may feel instinctively like they don't want to be around you. Want to make someone think of you in a good way? Keep those thoughts positive!