A Telepathic Technique to Smooth a Rough Patch in a Relationship
Any relationship can hit a low point. Here's a way to use telepathy to improve it.
Do you think people can read your thoughts? Maybe they can’t tune into the dialog in your head directly, but sometimes they can feel the gist of what you’re thinking.
Consider this. Have you ever known what someone was going to say before they said it? Have you ever sensed that someone was mad at you or didn’t like you even though they smiled in your face? Have you ever felt someone was in crisis and picked up the phone to call them only to find out that they did, in fact, need your help?
If you answered yes to any of those questions then you already know that thoughts have the power to shape an interaction between two people — even if only on a subconscious level. You can also use telepathy strategically to influence the perception others have of you. Here’s how to do that with a loved one when you need to smooth a rough patch in a relationship.
Understanding telepathy
First let’s get a basic understanding of telepathy.
Telepathy is the transmission of thoughts between people without using the traditional five senses. I keep thinking about how much I love you, and somehow, you know I love you without me having to say anything.
It’s considered a psychic ability that, along with clairvoyance and precognition, is a form of extrasensory perception, or ESP.
There are two sides to a telepathic conversation. The person who transmits a thought is the sender. The person who receives the thought is the receiver.
Most of the time we experience telepathy as receivers and we don’t know how we did it. We might finish the sentence of a loved one. Or we pick up on someone’s jealousy even though they’ve never said anything to give us the impression they were envious. People with fur babies may experience it when they know instinctively what a dog’s whine or a cat’s meow is trying to tell them.
But we can use telepathy to our advantage by acting as senders and strategically sending thoughts to pave the way for a future conversation. Here’s one way to do it.
When and where to do this exercise, and materials you need
The best day to do this exercise or any other exercise related to telepathy is on a Wednesday. Wednesday is ruled by the planet Mercury, which is also the planet of communication.
Times you should avoid doing telepathic exercises include when Mercury is in retrograde (a time when communication challenges are common), and during periods when the moon is void (meaning the moon has left one sign and has not yet entered the next sign). You can track astrological transits by getting an astrological calendar. My favorite is Llewellyn’s calendar, which I buy every year.
While you don’t need any materials to do this exercise, the following metaphysical items can help. Crystals that are known to enhance telepathy include amethyst, selenite and moonstone. If you have one of these crystals, place it on your alter if you have one, or sit it next to you while you do the exercise. If it’s a piece of jewelry, wear it while you do the exercise. You can also hold it in your hands as you do the exercise.
Essential oils that can help include Lavender and Frankincense as they both can help with communication.
If you like burning candles when you meditate, get a purple candle for this exercise, as it promotes the use of your intuition.
If you have tarot cards, the High Priestess can help you with this exercise. Place that card on your alter, hold it in your hand or if you’re lying down, place it under your pillow.
Now for the steps.
1. Consider the relationship.
Where exactly does the relationship stand? Is this someone you’re in regular contact with? Are you on speaking terms? Has something happened to alter the relationship or is it simply a matter of two people drifting apart? The answers to these questions aren’t as important as the act of determining where the relationship stands so you can figure out how best to use telepathy to improve it.
Ideally, you want to use this exercise with someone you are on speaking terms with who you can have a conversation with after the exercise is complete. That way you can better assess how effective this exercise was.
2. Determine what you want to say.
Telepathy is a form of communication just like having a face-to-face conversation or writing a letter. In order for it to be most effective, it’s helpful to think about what you want to say in advance.
Do you want to apologize for something? Do you want to know how the other person feels about the relationship? If you were going to write a letter to them what would it say? Take notes if you have to because the answers to these questions will help you determine the actual thoughts you’re going to transmit telepathically.
3. Create a meditative state.
When I work with telepathy, I like to do it before I drift off to sleep when my mind isn’t totally conscious. You can also get to this state through meditation. (If you don’t have a meditation practice, you might need to strengthen your meditative skills before this telepathy exercise works as well as you’d like.)
A simple way to do this is to go to a room where you won’t be disturbed and preferably that is quiet. (Some people like to use meditative music to relax their minds and that’s totally ok.) Close your eyes and focus on your breathing, taking deep breaths from the belly and not from the chest. Detach yourself from your thoughts and simply watch them for a while. When random thoughts slow down and your mind feels at peace, you’re ready to start working with telepathy.
4. Bring the person to mind.
This is when you start thinking about the person. Visualize them in your mind’s eye. Allow yourself to feel any emotion that comes up. In fact, emotion is a good thing in this situation. The stronger the emotion, the more likely the energy you’re projecting through your thoughts will be picked up by the receiver. Visualize this person laying down and asleep. In your mind’s eye, they are still and breathing softly. Since they are asleep their defenses are down and they are receptive to what you have to say. Now, visualize yourself in the room with the person while they sleep.
5. Say what you want to say.
Literally have a conversation with them. In your mind’s eye see yourself saying everything you plan to say when you have the next face-to-face conversation with them. You might tell them you’re sorry. Or say that you love them. Maybe you tell them you want to get past the rough patch and improve the relationship. This is a one-way conversation so there will be no opportunity here for you to ask questions or get a response. Also, it’s best not to focus on what you want the person to do; instead take this opportunity to share what you want to do as far as the relationship is concerned.
Also use those same techniques that you would use to have a productive real-world conversation. For example, avoid placing blame on the person or they will pick up on animosity, not love. (So rather than say, ‘you make me feel bad,’ you might say, ‘I feel bad when you don’t talk to me.) Focus on your feelings and what you want for the relationship.
6. Focus on the positive.
Yes, there might be a list of things that this person has done wrong in the relationship. This isn’t the time to go into them. If you dwell on negativity or focus on a litany of complaints, the energy of disapproval and criticism is what you will be transmitting telepathically and that’s going to influence the relationship. I’m not saying you should eat your negative feelings; I’m just saying this isn’t the time to air them out. Instead focus on the positive aspects of the relationship that you want to build upon. If you can’t do that, you probably shouldn’t be doing this telepathic exercise at this time.
7. Thank them for their time.
When you’ve said everything you wanted to say, end the conversation by thanking your loved one for their time. Even as they lie sleeping in your mind’s eye, they are receiving the energy of your thoughts and for that, be grateful.
8. Allow the scene to fade from your mind’s eye.
At this point, you can start to come out of the meditation. See yourself leaving the bedside of the loved one and allow yourself to energetically return to your body. Wiggle your fingers and toes to begin to ground yourself. As your mind detaches from that visualization start noticing other thoughts that come to mind and just be aware of your surroundings. If you do this exercise before going to sleep, you can go to sleep at this point. If you’re not ready for bed, allow yourself to come out of the meditation and go about your day.
9. Set up a real-world conversation.
Here’s why it’s best to do this particular exercise with someone you’re still speaking with. (I’ll provide an exercise that works well with someone you’re no longer on speaking terms with another time). You’re going to set up some time to talk with the person and see if you notice a shift. Feel the energy when you’re around them and assess whether it’s lighter, even if only a little bit. You may even decide to repeat the same things you said during the visualization. If so, note how receptive they are to the conversation. They’ll likely be more receptive than they would have been had you not done the exercise. If you notice a small change, you can always repeat the exercise multiple times and then assess whether the relationship continues to improve.